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On the streets of Zhengzhou, China, the city where I first had a crush on a Chinese guy. At least that woman wasn't as blunt as another colleague, who used to bicycle with me through the streets of Zhengzhou. As we stopped on the corner of a side street and watched the mostly-male populous 511 asian guy looking for Hawes woman only past us through the intersection, she grimaced.

How could these women just write off all Chinese men as undateable?

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Negative impressions ultimately dominated as the women criticized Chinese men as "not so gentlemanly," "poor physique, not enough exercise," "no personality, lacking unique opinions," even condemning them on perceived personal hygiene problems. One American participant in the study actually blamed Hollywood for projecting a poor image of Chinese men around the world, and I couldn't help but wonder if she was thinking of Sixteen Candles at the time.

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It's a troubling problem, one that even gets me and my husband down. Look across East Asia or, for that matter, any country in the Western world, and you'll notice a very revealing gap in the Asian interracial dating world: A Field Report from Hong Kong. The result?

A total of couples of Western men and Asian women versus only six couples of Asian men and Western women including him and his Brazilian wife. You could substitute Hong Kong with the name of any country or region in the world and end up with comparable results.

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Even Chinese-American men don't feel the love from their fellow Americans, lamenting this in essays such as " Are Asian Huy Undateable? In search of explanations for why so few Western women date Chinese men, some China expats have suggested cultural differences are the primary reason.

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This fall marks 15 years since I first set foot in China. It's also 15 years since I first learned that most Western women in China refuse to date Chinese men. Yet a decade and a half later, I'm still pondering this issue.

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And I can't help but wonder how many decades it will take before it's no longer an issue for expats in China. Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. Nude african Imperatriz September -- my first month in China lnly I had a huge crush on a guy.

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